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Culture of Neglect: Tolerance of violence against women and young girls

Dear all,

I am working on a program that deals with Violence against Women (www.cordaid.nl). I would like to know what your views, expereinces and expertise are on the topic of CULTURALviolence against women and young girls in the world. Cultural violence will be the theme of the paper i will write at the end of the year; its my contribution to the program's further development because i think it is an important one.

Acoording to theorists, not much is academically written about the topic of cultural violence against women. The world has not given it its due attention, often because of its sensetivity-the word 'culture' makes it even harder. In every part of the world, women’s roles and positions in society are prescribed. One of the key aspects of every culture is the way it defines gender roles. Almost without exception women are assigned to roles which are subservient to those of men. These roles are often enforced through violence.

Social and political institutions foster women’s subservience and violence against women. Certain cultural practices and traditions – particularly those related to ideas of purity and chastity -- are invoked to explain or excuse such violence. Virtually every culture in the world contains forms of violence against women that are nearly invisible because they are seen as “normal”.

Often, the behaviour of a woman is considered to reflect on her family and community. If a woman is seen to be defying her cultural role, she may be held to have brought shame and dishonour on her family and community. In such circumstances, violence or the threat of violence is used as a means of punishment and control. In the most extreme cases, this can result in permanent disfigurement and even death. So-called “honour” crimes are treated leniently in the legal codes of many countries.

Case study: "At least 270 women were murdered in “honour killings” - usually by their husbands or brothers - in 2002 in Punjab province alone. The figures were compiled by the non-governmental Human Rights Commission of Pakistan, based on police reports. Some were killed because they protested against forced marriages or asserted their right to choose their husband. Others were killed for actions such as a look misconstrued as a sign of an illicit relationship" (www.amnesty.nl)

Even in countries where laws criminalize violence against women, tolerance of violence may be found at all levels of society. Gender-based violence is made possible by the ideology of sexism which argues that women are worth less than men in the sense of having less power, status, privilege, and access to resources. Sexism is a system of beliefs and attitudes based on the alleged inferiority of women; an inferiority which translates into attitudes that hold that women cannot be believed, that women are inferior, and that women are inherently subordinate to men.

According to the top United Nations refugee official there is a “massive” culture of neglect and denial about violence against women, and refugee populations are in the front line of the scourge. The recent rapea ccusations of UN peacekeeping soldiers in Sudan is not being adequately handled in my opinion because that culture of neglect and denial exist everywhere- even at the UN level.

Sad. very Sad.


January 6, 2007 | 6:56 AM Comments  6 comments

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glowa Jamils - Richard Achunji Anguaseh
January 8, 2007 | 2:32 AM
I am very Proud of You Sah
Building a violence sensitive culture for the benefit of children and women is a very big challenge to the social development of our world. Unfortunately this struggle is still very elitis, yet those millions of women living a daily practice of tradtion and culture do not seem to be on the train. Perpetrators (Elderly women and Traditional Leaders) have been left out of it.
Even when "they" are to be involved, they are simply gieven istruction on how they should behave and what appears to be good for women. When it is not done these women and the rural peope are to blamed. I think this where we are getting it all wrong, keeping the perpetrators out of it is bad and/or apportioning blames is very dengerous to the advancement of the sturggle
I think that while keeping an eye on theideal situation, we should begin by giving all women econmic independence and social empowerment as claim holders.
Jamils-Richard Achunji Anguaseh
Sahro Sahro Ahmed
January 9, 2007 | 4:14 AM
thank you Jamils!
Dear Jamils...thank you for the encouraging words. The world needs Women leadersip. I am sure it'd be a better place for all if that were to occur. I would like to contribute to this process...
Sa
Norma63 Norma
January 14, 2007 | 12:26 AM
Male disempowement nurtures violence against females
Dear Sahro,
Thanks for inviting me to comment on your topical issue, "Culture of neglect".

My personal view is that the predominant thought that guides most public institutions is patriarchal thought. Patriarchy is inherently dictatorial, and several males are forced by their diverse cultures to internalize such thought without the ability to actualize the ideals and expectations of patriarchy. Their pent-up resentment is then unleashed on the next weak victim. It just happens that women and children 'fit the bill'.

Patriarchal institutions cannot successfully prosecute such violence without attacking, and thereby dismantling the institution of partriarchy itself i.e. the dictatorship on which patriarchy thrives. These are my innermost thoughts on the subject and I'm afraid they are untested as of now.

I don't know if you'll find this useful. Good luck.
kiki2005 kaka
January 17, 2007 | 3:15 AM
MAY THE PASSION THE THE LORD STRENGTHEN YOU
Violence aganist women and children has more effect on the rural dewellers.its difficult to adderss this issues because this act is achieve through cultural practices which is the social capital of the community.it will be difficult to address this issue if communties does not give up some harmful cultral pratices. I hope this makes sense to you.
mandlo dudu
January 25, 2007 | 5:02 AM
the battle began and must continue
While violence against women exists. I am glad and grateful that we have people like you and me talking about it. To me that means we are well on our way, the battle has begun and seeing we are not the first to talk about it, we are part of a larger army that is advancing the good cause. Culture being a defining a very important aspect of any people, wihout it we would be a group of people without any diversity and really boring. Anyway my point is culture is to be appreciated but is also dynamic and should be allowed to evolve. By this I mean that we should have the hope that with enough awareness attitudes can be changed and people can chnage to become more gender sensitive. Gender violence surely exists in many forms in our society. I know of some men that believe a woman should be beaten up every once in a while just so she will know her place in the home. This is something that is accepted. There are certain cultures as well where women or girls are given to another clan to appease spirits and end feuds. There are many examples I could give, from Zimbabwe but I think it suffices to say we need more and more awareness on gender issues. Here in SOuth Africa the rates of rape and other such violence against women are shocking. Your work must be commended and look forward to hearing more about your work and projects.
Thank you for inviting me to comment on your blog.
Sahro Sahro Ahmed
January 30, 2007 | 11:26 AM
thank you all for your constructive feedback!
Dear all,
I highly appreciate and value every single word u have written here in response to my question. I am sure i and my colleagues will learn much from your input;
- the need for awareness-raising
- the need for male disempowerment
-power-sharing
- cultural obstacles
-empowerment of women
- culure as a 'legitimizer' for vioelnce against women

For change to happen, the above must be discussed and explored extensively.

In my opnion, however, i think that we cant change what we do not acknowledge, the fact that violence-esp culture-based violence is negatively impacting women and young girls, is not seen as a problem. No, because its pushed into the private domain and "its their culture"....is the excuse.

sincerely, sah
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